Expiration Of Respiration !

When I am no more here, after my expired to live   permanently hereafter.

 Will look for me everywhere having realized my lacks   what you lost forever.

 Either your sound sleeps or your ram sleeps you can see   me somewhere in the dreamland as your lost dear.

 Very earlier after my expired you will make grieves,   weeps, & loud lamentation in my funeral and mourns as rules of nature.

 In your attempts to bring my dead body in the graveyard   will trigger another mourns and grieves to all my loving dears because of my   departure to migrate there.

 After my funeral & graving all you will prepare for   my four days mourns with all the participators during my graving in the   graveyard for a prayer.

 In 4oth days of my dead you will make big arrangement   by inviting all relatives, neighborhoods, friends, and some beggars to a big   prayer for me as all you were my very well wisher.

 May you will be chops two or three cows or a camels to   entertain all invited people to have a delicious lunch & dinner by   ignoring many beggars and poor’s without value & care.

 All you called this Chehelam but I like to call this as   an entertainment program to dishonor and deceives with the dead man’s expire.

 Very immediate after my Chehelam you will start to   forget me gradually or steadily by absorbing your earthly activities   respectively your personal matter.

 But one person never forgets me only my loving and long   time life partner.

 She will survive with all her grieves, lonely pain   & sad and even all types of earthly problems without any helper and well   wisher.

 All her rest of the lifetime will be full of miseries   as dependant to others, lacking of loves, hopes, and negligence by relatives   and brother or sister.

 Everything will be going on as usual and natural due

to men are forgetful and self center.

All the natural & earthly activities and matters   will be happening as followed by the programmed of nature or creator.

It is true and natural that after husband’s expired wife   becomes a shed less shelter till her death here.

 Any valuable precious and material lives or sons and   daughters can not make up the gap created for mother by their father.

 A widow wife sees many people besides and around her   which is unable to eradicate her insight loneliness like “water, water, and   water everywhere water but to drink there is not a single drop of water”.

In the anniversary of the dead man all people as   brother, sister, relatives, and friends come to the prayer without grieves   and mourns that previously they showed by sad, sorry, and shocked as exposer.

 All the above verses are natural & usual determined   by our creator or God or Almighty Allah so that all people can sustain their   earthly lives to be happily in present and future.

 Although losing any loving one as father, mother,   sister, brother, and husband etc are very regretful and unbearable sad and   pains matters but there is no way to escape from this negative emotional   suffers.

 So, any truthful & universal sad, sorrow, and pains   should be accepted easily as soon as possible due to nature’s wills &   eager’s.

 This is nature’s philosophy that over the time   everything becomes normal, stable, and endurable for human for their next   progenies sustaining good future and to be happier.

 That’s why poet said; forget the past to be advanced to   your goal or vision to integrate your human lives strategies to avoid any   drastic emotional barrier.

By : Nuruzzaman Sarder

Email: nuruzzaman_sarder@yahoo.ca

Website: www.writing.com/authors/nzamans

Date: 9/10/2011